How to write a catchy adult dating site profile

The reason why you post your profile on an adult dating site is that people get attracted towards it and respond. Therefore, it is extremely important that you write an interesting, eye-catching and attractive profile for online dating. Not a mean job at all. It is no less than writing copy for an ad. After all, you are out there in the marketplace and you need to sell your assets to the best taker.
So, how do you start your profile? First, let us consider the options that have lost their charm and no longer attract attention in the highly competitive dating market. The zodiac sign, for instance, has lost its usefulness in the adult dating scene today. Instead, you may start by telling what you do for work.

Writing your profile is one of the most difficult exercises you may have done in life. It entails giving a detailed description of who you are. The best way to do that is to first see yourself as you are and then see what you want to be. Somewhere in between you will find the words that will describe you aptly. But, above all, be honest otherwise you might have to face embarrassment at a later stage.

Your choice of words can make or mar your profile. The beauty of language is such that you can turn things around just by picking up the right words. For instance, even if your ultimate motive of using adult dating service is to have a physical relationship, you can put it across in a decent manner that does not offend the reader. If you are so desperate for sex, you better look for it elsewhere. Dating services are not meat markets. Also, pay attention to the format of your profile. Write five or six neat paragraphs with a catchy sentence in each one of them. Basically, your profile should look good so that the reader stops to go into the details.

The best tools to help you write a glowing description of yourself are creativity and humor. A keen sense of humor can make the worst of your shortcomings look endearing. For instance, if you are forgetful and absent-minded, you may say that you have a memory that can store anything only it needs to be reminded to do so. Humor is your best bet when it comes to approaching people. Always try to develop this art. You must post a casual picture of yourself along with your profile. A formal portrait is unnecessary and often misleading.

Remember not to provide your personal identification in your adult dating profile. It is better to write only your first name and an e mail account that you use only for online dating. You can get one of the free web accounts that can help you conceal your contact information.

Adult dating and singles dating can really be fun provided you know how to protect yourself. Who knows you might meet some good people and make some really good friends and have lasting relationships.

  1. #1 written by Daniel March 11th, 2011 at 08:09

    Wouldn’t telling someone first up what you do for a living imply to them that money is your number one interest? I mean, having browsed various singles sites, nearly all women jump to asking what I do for a living when my profiles have only ever suggested short term relationships and I’ve only ever responded to women who state the same. Perhaps this blog should be more about ‘people’ (women in my experience, but no doubt men are just as bad) not expecting to meet someone who’s going to just pay for their life when their profile clearly states they just want a roll in the hay or erotic chat.

    I feel sorry for people who get it wrong by not disclosing their earnings – I think doing that, provided a relationship or marriage desire isn’t stipulated, is both unnecessary and quite a shallow expectation on the part of the other person.

    People (women, in my case) should be less focussed upon that unless their profile says they want something long term, then it makes sense to ask, not for a bleeding chat or intimate encounter!

    RE Q