Comments for The AU X Depot http://www.auxtdept.org Australian X Reviews and Advice Fri, 11 Mar 2011 08:09:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on How to write a catchy adult dating site profile by Daniel http://www.auxtdept.org/adult-dating/10/comment-page-1/#comment-33 Daniel Fri, 11 Mar 2011 08:09:10 +0000 http://www.auxtdept.org/?p=10#comment-33 Wouldn't telling someone first up what you do for a living imply to them that money is your number one interest? I mean, having browsed various singles sites, nearly all women jump to asking what I do for a living when my profiles have only ever suggested short term relationships and I've only ever responded to women who state the same. Perhaps this blog should be more about 'people' (women in my experience, but no doubt men are just as bad) not expecting to meet someone who's going to just pay for their life when their profile clearly states they just want a roll in the hay or erotic chat. I feel sorry for people who get it wrong by not disclosing their earnings - I think doing that, provided a relationship or marriage desire isn't stipulated, is both unnecessary and quite a shallow expectation on the part of the other person. People (women, in my case) should be less focussed upon that unless their profile says they want something long term, then it makes sense to ask, not for a bleeding chat or intimate encounter! Wouldn’t telling someone first up what you do for a living imply to them that money is your number one interest? I mean, having browsed various singles sites, nearly all women jump to asking what I do for a living when my profiles have only ever suggested short term relationships and I’ve only ever responded to women who state the same. Perhaps this blog should be more about ‘people’ (women in my experience, but no doubt men are just as bad) not expecting to meet someone who’s going to just pay for their life when their profile clearly states they just want a roll in the hay or erotic chat.

I feel sorry for people who get it wrong by not disclosing their earnings – I think doing that, provided a relationship or marriage desire isn’t stipulated, is both unnecessary and quite a shallow expectation on the part of the other person.

People (women, in my case) should be less focussed upon that unless their profile says they want something long term, then it makes sense to ask, not for a bleeding chat or intimate encounter!

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